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Safety

Trust takes time — and safety helps build it. Here’s what to keep in mind.

Stay Covered by Our Safety Tools

Our protection ends when chats leave the site. Stay where we can protect you.

Ask Casual, Specific Questions

Deepfakes can stumble on details. Use video chats wisely and verify afterward.

Guard Your Photos Like Passwords

Sextortion scams use stolen or shared pictures to demand money.

Go Where There’s Activity

Public places like museums or coffee spots keep you safe and at ease.

Stay in Touch

Let a trusted contact know where you are during your date and when you’re home.

Keep Your Phone On and Charged

It’s your key to staying connected, safe, and in control of your plans.

Stay Independent and Safe

Plan your own transport and avoid car rides offered by dates.

Safety Loves Clarity

Less alcohol keeps you alert to surroundings and safe choices.

Keep Early Dates Simple

Meet, chat, and end the night safely — without going home together.

Keep the Fun Flowing

Smile, chat, and enjoy the good energy that comes with meeting someone new.